I often hear Mums say that they don’t have time for missions, or they say that missions is not for them at this time, maybe when their children are grown up and they can leave them at home with family, or old enough to even join them “on the field”. Sometimes they say things like,”I wish I could give more than just my money or prayers. I really crave to give more in ministry or missions”
Now disclaimer here – yes I work with Youth With A Mission (YWAM) an international Missions organisation. Yes I live in a different country than my or my husbands family. Yes I have brought my children up on the “ Mission Field”. I have taken them to many ministry events and outreaches to different countries and communities. This has not been easy and many more times than I would like to count I have thought about how much easier it would be bringing up our children with our families around, but that is not what we as a family have been called to do. This is the life that God has asked the Moala family to have for this time. However this is something different to what I want to talk about today.
What I want to share with you is that every believing Mum or Mom (I realise I have Mamas reading from both hemispheres) has a responsibility in the Mission field!!
Now before you close the browser window thinking I am telling you to go into international missions or be like Abraham, I am not saying that at all. In fact, hopefully, the title of this blog caught your attention anyway. What I am saying is that every Mother in every family has a very unique and special job from God! Your children are your Mission Field!! So you don’t even need to leave your house and you have your own ministry and mission right there in your living room, kitchen, bedrooms and backyard!!
Matthew 28:19-20 says “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptising them in the name of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”
So what does this mean for us Mums? We are to bring up our children and disciple them, teaching them the Word of God and God is with us to help us in this monumental task!
Psalm 78: 4-7 says “We will not hide them from their children, telling to the generation to come the praises of the Lord, And His strength and His wonderful works that He has done. For He established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel, which He commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children; that the generation to come might know them, the children who would be born, that they may arise and declare them to their children, that they may set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God but keep His commandments.”
Again a beautiful passage of the benefits of sharing what God has done, to our children. Sometimes we make the mistake of not sharing the ups and downs of life with our children because we feel they may not be able to handle it. I know from experience that my kids are very resilient, and when I share our struggles with them, whether it is financial, health or work (without giving gory details) they are quick to pray and look to God. When I share with them answered prayer it really boosts their already childlike faith!! Your stories may be the ones they remember of Gods faithfulness. That may be the one thing that they understand and gives them a deeper knowledge of God which brings stability and strength to their faith and relationship with Him. If all we do is share Bible stories with them and pray over our food, how does this give them anything to stand on when life gets hard? Or when they grow up a bit and begin to question God and their faith? Be real with your kids. Speak the truth to them of how God has come through for you personally and as a family.
We often talk about Missionaries reaching the unreached. Going into the unreached people groups and sharing God with people who have never heard the name of Jesus before. But let me tell you a secret…. your children are your unreached people!!! God gave them to you and you get to be the first person to tell them about Jesus!! Tell them about Jesus and His great love for them, before the world tells them something different. Your children are your unreached people group! Right there in front of you!! I pray that as a Mum on the mission field I don’t get so caught up with reaching the lost around me that I forget the unreached people right in front of me! As a Mum, my children are the people that God has given to me to teach, train, disciple and point to God. As a missionary the people around me in my community and the people we are ministering to are important too, but not more important than my children.
I hope this has encouraged you to see your purpose in motherhood and the amazing ministry that you have in front of you. Maybe later you will get to go an a mission trip, and maybe in another season you will have more to give of yourself in ministry but right now what you are doing with your children is the most important ministry you can have.
So just as in Matthew 19:13-15 When Jesus called the children unto himself and prayed for them, I encourage you to take your children to Jesus. Point them to Him everyday. Share your stories with them of Gods faithfulness and greatness. Pray with them over the big things as well as the little things. Tell them the Bible stories and explain how these stories relate to them today. Tell them other peoples stories of what God has done for others too. Don’t forget that as you disciple, train and teach your children that God will be with you every step of the way!!
Your Kids are Your Mission Field – Be encouraged in the purpose of your Motherhood!!